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---------------------- Forwarded by Susan M Scott/HOU/ECT on 09/19/2000 12:28
PM --------------------------- Enron Capital & Trade Resources Corp. From: "corey leahy" <celeahy@hotmail.com< 09/19/2000 08:21 AM To: Susan.M.Scott@enron.com cc: Subject: Re: What to do, what to do? Hi Susan. Sorry I didn't respond to your email yesterday. I opened it in between classes, but never got back to my comouter and was out eating with a firm until 11:00. I will be glad when all of this is over. The jury is split on what you should do. Knowing myself, I would want to know what happened... i.e. what's the matter with him? I think I would ask him-- in a non-confrontational-- almost joking way-- like I didn't really care either way but was just wondering-- why he stopped calling, etc. I say that, but I have never done that before, so I don't really know if that is what I wish I would do, or if that really is what I would do-- and this has happened to me lots of times. Usually, I just write the guy off as gay or stupid... Leslie (and though I haven't talked to my mom, I know she would agree) says not to give him any satisfaction of knowing you care. Just act pleasant and normal as if nothing has happened and is if you were actually the one who stopped the contact-- maybe he thinks you were, you never know. I think this is a good tactic if you are sure your curiosity and need to tell him off won't eat at you. Actually, in practice, I usually combine these tactics. Remember when Michael Stockton was so rude to me freshman year? First I called him and told him off (Laura made me), then I ignored him (pleasantly, though)for about four months until he couldn't stand it and started asking Laura about me. In other words, both tactics are good. I really think you ought to do what makes you feel the best. If you confront him, he might say something you don't want to hear, but then again, you will get some resolution. If you don't confront him, you can always chalk it up to his homosexuality and you can feel better knowing he thinks you don't care... If I ever see him again, I will ignore him (blatantly). Don't worry about it too much-- we should feel sorry for people who are still confused about their sexuality at 31. Isn't he a little old to be living in the closet? Let me know what happens. -Corey _________________________________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com. Share information about yourself, create your own public profile at http://profiles.msn.com.
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